Your browser does not support Flash or does not have it installed. Click here download Flash Now



Once upon a time…

Story #1 – Mr./Ms. Fooled
A good looking guy shows up at a coffee shop expecting to meet a woman, whom from her profile photo could be the most attractive match he potentially has ever met. He is blindsided when a seemingly random woman introduces herself as his date. She is not at all what he had imagined and is not attracted to her in the least. Turns out she used a profile picture of herself from 3 years ago.

Story #2 – Mr./Ms. Going Nowhere
A woman goes on many successful dates through an online dating site and ends up having a lot of casual fun. But as she starts to get serious about having a committed relationship that’s when she realizes that the only men that will call her back are the ones that she sleeps with on the first or second date.

Story #3 – Mr./Ms. Copy Cat
Through her correspondence via email she seemed quite poetic with a lot of interesting things to say, but on your first date you realize her head is filled with more air than a hot air balloon. She must have been copying and pasting brilliant lines she found online…

Story #4 – Mr./Ms. Obsessed
A woman receives an email from a possibly attractive male, but not even 24 hours later, before she even has the chance to respond to him with interest, he sends her an angry follow up email accusing her of being rude for not even replying, ¨No thank you,¨ to his date offer.

Story #5 – Mr./Ms. Ignored
A guy emails 25 beautiful women he’d like to get to know better. He’s sure that there’s at least one of them that could be his match made in heaven, yet even a week later not a single one of them has responded.

Did you know…

An average of 10% of new dating accounts created each day on free online dating services are by scammers.

Many dating sites like fail to remove inactive or fake users from their database.

For singles that use dating sites, 33% form a relationship, 33% do not, and 33% give up on dating online.

People often feel at liberty to lie or not tell the whole truth when creating an online dating profile.

Consumer complaints about online dating have grown exponentially since 2004.

It is estimated that one-fifth of online daters are actually married men.

Online dating removes the support and accountability of family and friends in your life.


Why does this happen with online dating?

Online dating is impersonal. Sometimes people forget they’re talking to real human beings.

People often feel at liberty to say things online they wouldn’t normally say face to face.

Online profiles compel us to want to look as “good” as possible, which can sometimes be misleading.

Sometimes people get hung up on raw characteristics that they forget to tune into chemistry.

Online dating can feel like “shopping” for the perfect mate.

Those dating online create their profile based on what they think of themselves and not what others think of them.


I was born with a special gift of analyzing patterns.

I now use this gift, along with input from hundreds of interviews with women, to help others start relationships, safely & strategically!

Far too many great men and women enter relationships based on physical connections alone, denying their deepest callings and creations with partners.  I use this gift to evaluate & coach professional men and women carefully on dating best practices and inside our matchmaking service, to enhance their awareness of their power within their conscious mind.  

This gift helped me analyze the best practices to heal the body using applied kinesiology (aka muscle response testing) as I attained a clinical nutrition credential at the Natural Healing Institute and a Quantum Reflex Analysis credential at Premier Labs.

I use this gift with our team to assess “your best type” and to find you a match based on a personal connection with you! In today’s evolving dating landscape, safety is more important than ever! People who date with us are preselected based on our questionnaires, background checks, and interviews.

More on my background: This gift has also helped me earn a civil & environmental engineering degree from UCLA…….enhance business development efforts for internet startups Betfair, Scour, & DivX Networks………lead a $50M acquisition of TVG as the Director of US Business Development for Betfair Limited Group……finish 2nd place competing against the top horse gamblers in the worldthe World Series of Horse Betting in 2011…….

Getting more personal if I may, after spending over a decade building and maintaining professional business relationships, I was forced me to re-evaluate at all of my relationships in my life after my father passed from a 6 year battle with cancer.  It hit me that time was short and that I must take every single one of my relationships with family and lovers as if today was my last day with them.  I decided it was time to do something more meaningful with my life other than just earning a cool paycheck.  Initially, I chose to focus my time on mastering quantum nutrition, muscle response testing, and the body’s plasma bio-field to help my friends, family, and others avoid diseases.  What began as a journey to study the body’s relationship to health ended in the discovery that it’s the relationships in our lives that are far more toxic than the acidic foods which we consume!  Many don’t even realize the impact of what they are missing out on in mindful loving and connecting.  Some people, consciously or unconsciously, choose to reside in destructive partnerships because they chose not to work on themselves or access a fresh set of eyes to guide them into new awareness or growth.

As a result of my life experiences and this epiphany, I shifted my mission to research, develop, & share many best practices in the art & science of dating.  The unique nature & inherent complexity of choosing new partners inspired me to begin modeling out fun “algorithms for sustainable love” utilizing my UCLA engineering mindset as well as my own personal research from various relationships, woundings, coaching, workshops, and life experiences.  The fact that the difference between my parents was 17 years and yet they stay married for 30+ years blew my mind for years, especially considering their unique way of showing limited affection.  But it all made sense once I understood their wounding and their forgiveness patterns.

As a result of this new found passion for helping others connect, I invented a proprietary scientific dating technology to help men & women start relationships safely & strategically.  It’s based on time intervals, quantum energetics, behavioral analysis, tantra, self awareness, charisma practices, and much more.  Best described as some type of”alternative love mindfulness”,  the application does not come in the form of electronics, or a pill- rather its methodology is based on identifying & maximizing the “sweet spots” or “equilibrium connection points” using timing & environmental factors that occur between people in various social contexts, predominantly in the first 10 minutes- hence the name!  If you can use the first 10 minutes wisely, you won’t miss out on an awesome lover because you exercise your truth.

My intention behind founding is to give evolving individuals the necessary tools to start and sustain, ultra safe, loving, uber empowering relationships, as well as to improve the art (& science) of matchmaking. Our clients include business executives, engineers, medical professionals, teachers, professors, artists, celebrities, politicians, and anyone who is ready to step into their best self.

I hope you take a first step with us, like many who already have, and get your love life off auto-pilot & into your control.

In deepest gratitude,
Christian Hellmers & team

Testimonials from Coaching

“This workshop brought me into a closer connection with what I’m looking for and how to relate to my friends.”

“I really liked the juiciness of the workshop. There were all these gorgeous women here.”

“I was able to calm my mind down by just thinking that Christian and Eve were setting up this workshop so all of us could become more connected to ourselves and to our partner, whether it was someone we were meeting someone for the first time, or just partners in the moment, or whether it was a lifelong partner. “

“I felt supported by the women and encouraged by the men. The different aspects of the day were amazing…”

~ John


“I was open minded but I didn’t know what to expect! I’ve been to a lot of different leadership conferences and conferences about increasing your awareness and goal oriented workshops. This was more geared towards learning about who you are as a person and how you connect with others and partners. I’ve found it was very helpful in terms of getting to know what i’m looking for in a partner as well as what I have within myself to give.”

“Especially having it more interactive, it definitely helped me to understand the differences between the masculine and the feminine and how they always interact.”

“It was definitely eye opening. Being open minded coming into this is definitely a plus- but it even opened my mind even more in terms of how we can cognizantly help each other evolve….and I know there are so many more things to learn about the different genders but I definitely loved the fact that we could interact. I got a lot more out of this than sitting in a seminar or sitting in a leadership conference. This is more interactive.”

“This is definitely something I would recommend and I appreciate everything I learned today!”

~ Andrea


“Both Eve and Christian are amazing. I really liked the fact that they really asked you to think about what you’re looking for in a relationship. I came to the workshop out of interest in connecting with people in general, not just romantically for friendships or even just people you meet on a daily basis…”

“The whole workshop was really great for people not just looking for romantic connections but in general….asking you to pay attention how you relate with people a lot of the more subtle forms of communication like body language and eye contact. I would definitely would recommend it, whether you are looking for romantic connections or not.”

~ Larissa
Massage Therapist


“I learned a lot about the way I think and the way women think and how to really express yourself in a way that communicates the things that are true about yourself….”

“It was definitely time well spent!”

~ Paul
PHD in Computer Science

What if there was a better way to find the love of your life…

…with a personal matchmaker/coach who could work with you through the dating process.

Would that help you get closer to finding the man or woman of your dreams?

And let me clarify – we are talking about finding someone to match your most authentic self. We are not trying to change who you are or dress you up to make you “more desirable.”

In fact, we are here to introduce you to beautiful men and women we think could be your match as well as teach you the skills that will help you win over the kind of partner you want to spend years with, and possibly even marry.



Christian Hellmers and his team of sharp matchmakers aka “social architects” will help you find love. Whether it’s a 3 month, 6 month, or lifelong partnership, we use years of research on compatibility metrics and surveys, intuition from actual people, relationship analysis based on selective questions, and candid dialogue. Our team will listen to your needs and find you the closest comparable match in your local area or on the other side of the globe if so desired! No joke.

We match all types of people to all types of people, including same sex partnerships! The team offers various membership levels to suit your requests depending on your needs and budget! Hellmers and his team of architect, therapists, and coaches understand the dating landscape from multiple levels. We create dating experiences built on safety first, mutual compatibility second, and fun third, while taking the bulk of the awkwardness and discomfort out of dating someone new!


The First 10 Minutes Matchmaking Unique Differentiators

  • We offer a free and paid personalized matchmaking service for professional men and women of all ages.
  • We screen for the most evolved men out there- successful, well rounded, & emotionally aware.
  • We enroll men and women in our coaching programs, depending on their level of awareness, to be eligible for our matchmaking service.
  • We focus on matching professionals who seek sustainable relationships (from several months to several years including, but not limited to marriage).
  • We utilize our own scientific dating technology to match people and to coach clients on ways to connect authentically in the first 10 minutes.

Our Primary Matchmaking Destinations

San Diego, CA
Orange County, CA
Los Angeles, CA
San Francisco, CA
New York, NY
London, England (coming soon)
Paris, France (coming soon)


Our Bronze Club Membership consists of becoming enrolled into our compatibility database (for free) upon completion of our unique Soulmate Survey.

If you don’t get into our database, you’ll never know if someone is looking for you!

* Possible free dates- if your number is called based on compatibility results!

* Access to free articles and videos on dating and relationships.

* Free information about upcoming singles events and promotions in your local area.

* Free coaching online.

Our Silver Club Membership consists of a minimum of 10 dates over the course of a year. We focus on your taste but not as in-depth as our other services. The price can include our coaching program as well if you like! If you just want to get our there again and date qualified professionals who meet a percentage of your criteria, then this is the best package for you! Contact us for the exact price point in your area.

* Up to 3 specific criteria for us to target for your next love.

* Match criteria includes appearance, interests, personality types, location, lifestyle, education, faith, ethnicity, political views, children, etc.

* Minimum investment of $2,000 for a minimum of 10 dates over the course of a year! Monthly and quarterly payment plans accepted.

We aren’t like other matchmaking firms that matches you with just anyone. We will not waste your matches or money on anyone. Our team of dedicated, intuitive partnership leaders will search across our various networks and databases to introduce you to your match. What also makes us different is we focus on evolved individuals. Our service is not for everyone and we refuse business because we believe that someone might have the wrong intentions. We hand pick our men which makes women feel safe.

Our Gold Club Membership consists of a minimum of 10 dates over the course of a year. We focus on your taste. The price depends on how specific you get! If you have certain things that challenge you in dating, or if you’re just super picky, then this is likely the best package for you!

* Up to 5 specific criteria for us to target for your ideal love.

* Match criteria includes appearance, interests, personality types, location, lifestyle, education, faith, ethnicity, political views, children, etc.

* Minimum investment of $5,000 for a minimum of 10 dates over the course of a year! Monthly and quarterly payment plans accepted.

If you MUST find a certain someone who is beyond the normal call of duty and you won’t settle for anyone outside of your exact criteria, then this is a service where we literally scour the cities, states, and sometimes the globe for your exact match. Undoubtedly, this is our most prestigious service offered. Regardless of your list of “dealbreakers”, we will put several consultants on the hunt for you to maximize our chances of finding your precise match. This service is used by politicians, entrepreneurs, celebrities, professors, and the busiest of the busy. You will work directly with our staff on a weekly/monthly basis to meet your needs based on your schedule, time restrictions, and tastes.

* Up to 10 specific criteria for us to target for your next love.

* Match criteria includes appearance, interests, personality types, location, lifestyle, education, faith, ethnicity, political views, children, etc.

* Minimum investment of $10,000 for a minimum of 10 dates over the course of a year! Monthly and quarterly payment plans accepted.

Contact us directly at 1 888 367 1210 ext. 11 for more information on pricing.


Use your time wisely with love!

Start a new loving relationship based on your needs, plus our analytics and guidance to avoid any unnecessary heartbreak!

We offer you a preselected list of men or women based on our database of contacts which is constantly changing depending on the latest breakups and referrals. You will be satisfied with our selections because we’ve studied compatible relationships & social dynamics for years. Plus we can coach you through the many challenges unlike other matchmaking companies! Everyone who uses our service has their information kept private and confidential unless otherwise agreed upon. If you refer someone, we will give you a few complimentary dates as well!


At the conclusion of our attraction mastery coaching programs, you will…

Invite an abundance of radiant women into your life

Get laser focused on your mission & gifts in life

Build confidence and charisma to approach your type

Become masterful with emotional communication

Earn deeper trust from partners

Transform jealousy

Get your ex back or get over her

Turn friendship into more

Get set up on dates with our matchmakers (SD, LA, & SF)


Our team of coaches have years of professional and personal experience in the matchmaking business

Our curriculum offers both interactive environments and private tutorials to explore at your own leisure

Our program shows you how to analyze the source of your struggles

Our proprietary scientific dating technology improves date conversions by at least 15%

Our material is based on science, personal research, interviews, feedback, Deida, & tantra

Our team has individualized coaching programs to support you in the matchmaking process

Our emphasis is on improving your attraction skills based on your criteria & needs

Our team will set you up on real dates geared to your personal preferences in a mate




Continuing in the online dating scene will just bring more of the same.

The longer you wait to address your emotional skills, the more stress & body pain.

Women like men who are certain of who they are & can handle their chaos.

Great men (leaders, athletes, executives) have mentors & coaches because they need accountability.

The longer you wait, the more amazing women will pass you by…

This material combines brain science, attraction tactics, healing arts, social awareness, and expert opinions/analysis for a holistic approach.

We keep our coaching free of sarcasm and focused on safety, growth, & results.

The forum is highly interactive based on your direct feedback.

You can apply these principles to business & family relationships too!

You will finally start taking action after you learn this insightful material!

You will get your money back if you aren’t satisfied!

Invest in yourself and your love life. Isn’t it time?